Healthy Families

Each one of us ha a family. Families are the ones that make you who you are today. Many say that your base education is got from the family, and those people who are rude don't have their 7 years from home. Well, it's kinda right because, we do what we see in our home. We act and communicate with people exactly how we learn at home. There are so many broken families, and so many unhappy kids with no future, it's almost sad. Happy families are those who care about each other, who even if there are no money and they are poor as hell, they stick with each other and try to make a living. Each person has had a childhood, some of us had beautiful childhoods, others prefer to not remember. When people decide to have a family, they usually think of giving what they never had to their child. At least, in my opinion, when I'm going to start a family, I will most definitely , make my child very happy.

A Healthy Family is a family where understanding and communication are priorities. In order to get along, people need to communicate. Parents have problems, kids have also their own teenager issues and so, they have to find a way to get along. When children reach teenage years, everything is changed. Teenagers are the hardest to understand. A healthy family, needs to let kids do their own thing. Keeping your kid locked in his room and grounded for something he did, doesn't solve things. In order to have a happy and healthy family, you need to know exactly what you want to teach your child. I think that the most healthy families are those where freedom in choices is allowed. If you have the freedom to do whatever you want to do, you won't do all the crazy stuff everyone else does.

Healthy Families, are families where harmony is the base. There are arguments in every family, every home has it's issues, but the important thing is to not let these issues destroy your respect and understanding. Parents usually don't admit when they are wrong, especially in front of children. In some ways this is ok, but it's best to make your child understand on his own.  Healthy Families are families that work as a team, go in trips, enjoy each others company. When kids grow older, everything seems to settle down. A mother is usually more close to her kids. The father has to be more tougher and more drastic, but in the end, love should exists in any family. Even if, many don't say I love you anymore, love exists.

In the end, families are sacred. We all think of family as the home you come back to. Families are there for you even if you messed up badly, even if you are ugly or dumb. A family loves you unconditionally, and having brothers and sisters it's just great. There is nothing like having a friend for a lifetime. Even if there are fights and arguments, the family won't ever let you go.